Is there a chat/dating app that isn't complete shit and pay wall restricted?

https://lemmy.world/post/17125238

Is there a chat/dating app that isn't complete shit and pay wall restricted? - Lemmy.World

Forgot to mention, apps that at least has some following in Europe.

Fetlife if you’re kinky. You gotta use it to find local events with fellow kinky people, meet up, vet each other. Etc etc.