@caseyliss Have you considered a Volvo V90 wagon? I think you can get similar levels of features as you might want from the XC90, and it comes in a plug-in hybrid. You might be able to score a better deal too since wagons are less in demand (though I haven't looked at Volvo pricing in a few years).
@caseyliss Update: I could be wrong, it looks like the V90 is a mild hybrid new right now, but I think it came in plug-in hybrid in past years.