I wish more masc folk would send varied cheeky flirty photos instead of just going straight to the junk. Send me pics of your hand roaming up your shirt, the trail of hairs leading down from your belly button, your thighs, the curve of your ass, your collarbones, the back of your neck - hell, your hands working, your fingers tracing things, your forearms - just tease me with your body, you've got a whole bunch of it to play with!

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@welshpixie Ok I have this thing that comes from a while ago when I wanted to buy sexy underwear for me (a masc dude) which is insanely tricky.
Sensuality is one of those things the patriarchy strips from masc-dudes. As a gay dude I have way more leeway than my straight masc friends because of the wiggle room to my gender norms already there.
But to my straight friends nothing like that exist. They are locked in to this bs feeling of their own (c)

@welshpixie (c) sexuality. They are forced away from their own sexuality or made to only show it either as "too cool to care" OR "penis" and thats it.

Is it weird that I worry about my straight masc friends this much?

@ohyran Not weird at all, heh. There's plenty worth worrying about.
@welshpixie also I am sorry for dumping but your post really pointed to something I have thought so much about.
@ohyran No need to apologise and I didn't read it as dumping - you're validly contributing to an interesting discussion!