@bridget

"It seems that you've been living...two lives. In one life, you're Thomas A. Anderson, cishet accountant for the paperclip company.
The other life is lived in computers, where you go by the alias 'Lilly_Catgirl69UwU', and have been associating with the C64Grrl polycule.
One of these lives has a future, and one of them does not."