Explosive police report reveals how Moms for Liberty co-founder arranged bisexual threesomes - LGBTQ Nation

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Explosive police report reveals how Moms for Liberty co-founder arranged bisexual threesomes - Lemmy.World

Aren’t all threesomes bisexual or homosexual? By definition? What does that word mean here?

No, not inherently. If the two same sex people dont engage in any sexual contact directly, its just a heteosexual threesome.

Bisexual threesome is when everyone is having sex with everyone else.

But I mean, for one person it’s not bisexual. Isn’t that just bisexual sex with a plus one?

Isn’t that just bisexual sex with a plus one?

Only if the bisexuals same sex partner is the their primary partner, and not the plus one.

If not, I would call it a threesome, or to be more specific, a bisexual threesome.

Are you going by “it’s not gay if it’s a three way” rules?

Either all people are of one gender, in which case it’s homosexual. Or there’s some combination of genders. So for someone in a MFF or FFM threesome, there is an element of bisexuality no matter what way you look at it.

Im just getting specific in a reply to the commentor above.

A bisexual + “plus one” implies that the plus one is not the regular partner, and that if the “plus one” is not bisexual, i.e in this context engaging in sex with the same gender, then that implies the original couple is instead.

So a threesomes is not a “bisexual, plus one” unless the couple is in a same sex relationship, i.e 2 men or 2 women who invite a 3rd of the opposite sex to bed.

A threesome with an otherwise hetro couple who invites a 3rd of either gender to all have sex with is a bisexual threesome, but not a “bisexual, plus 1” situation. The same threesome where everyone engaged in only hetrosexual contact would just be a hetrosexual threesome.

😂 😂 😂

The convoluted techincal logicistics of why it’s not gay and precisely when it does become so is silly. The answer is that yes, having sex with someone of the same sex/gender is gay, it is but also, gay and straight are just words used to self identify. Humans are way dynamic than trying to cling to these arbitrary labels. Having a threesome has zero impact on you telling a potential partner that you are gay/straight because you’re interested in them.

Labels are important and helpful, but we gotta remember they are just words that can’t define the sum of a human not accurately catch the essential essence of any single person.

The real point here the people discussing this seem to be missing is that it doesn’t matter what any of us consider to be gay. The members of Moms for Liberty would definitely not call this “normal” in terms of sexuality and would be against it if it were any other three people.
Well, that is is true. This sort of nuance, understanding and acceptance would absolutely be lost on someone so outwardly bigoted. Everyone, and especially MoL essentialism about what IS and isn’t normal is just so sad and misguided.
For what it’s worth, I agree with you that it isn’t worth saying whether it’s gay or not because it ultimately doesn’t matter. It’s not even worth debating on an academic level. Sexuality is a spectrum and this is just one part of the spectrum.