The same could be said the other way. “If not being called by your preferred pronoun is one of the most difficult things in your life… etc etc”.

Being misgendered constantly is a very difficult thing for trans people. Why wouldn’t it be?

because i don’t need another person’s consent or validation to be myself?

It’s not about consent or validation, it’s about being harassed. I’m not sure why that isn’t clear to you. Do you think trans people have an easy life?

me misgendering you is not harassment. i honestly don’t care and you shouldn’t either. people that want to die on that hill are wasting everyone’s time. move on. don’t engage with people who don’t take the time to respect your whatever.

Accidentally misgendering someone is not harassment.

Intentionally doing so is. Because that’s the whole point of intentionally doing so.

But accidentally misgendering someone is often considered paramount to taking part in the holocaust. I’m not mean, I’m just lazy, and I don’t want to talk on egg shells to make sure I accurately read someone’s gender correctly. You can only take some much unjustified vilification before you start to think “you know what? fuck you. I’m going to misgender you out of spite”.

Dude, don’t listen to bullshit propaganda. Actually talk to trans people and find out what they think.

I think I’ll just mind my business and not let anyone police my - checks notes- words

I translate: „I think I keep being a dickhead and keep not caring about other people because my lazyness is more important to me than your feelings.“