because people change their pronouns and they get pissed off if you use the wrong one.
I’ve had trans people tell me their pronoun. OK, cool. Then a few weeks/months later, they change it. Then they jump down my throat for not knowing the new one they have picked.
Look, most trans people are cool, but there are a few out there who are DETERMINED to be complete assholes about it, no matter how hard you try.
it isn’t enough when you’re dealing with some pronoun nutbag. they still get offended if you don’t call them by whatever they prefer at that moment in time… and/or that you don’t ask them each time you address them what their damn pronoun is.
probably because they are an asshole who gets off of fucking with other people.