“In this erotic world, there’s no cultural hierarchy stating that certain kinds of sex are better than others; thus, whatever (consensual) activities people do are fine. ”
“Those old hierarchies (intercourse is better than oral sex, oral sex is better than a hand job, toes are inherently not sexy, and so on) are for accountants, not lovers.”
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Sexual Intelligence: what we really want from sex and how to get it by Marty Klein – Book Review - Active Reader- Book Reviews
“Sexual Intelligence is the set of internal resources that allows you to relax, be present, communicate, respond to stimulation, and create physical and emotional connection with a partner. When you can do that, you’ll have enjoyable sexual experiences, regardless of what your body does. Compared to that kind of emotional and physical nourishment, the biggest, hardest erection or the wettest, tightest vagina are trivial.” If this makes sense to you, you will surely love reading this book, Sexual Intelligence, by Marty Klein, a popular sex therapist. The book, published in 2012, theorises sex, sexual intelligence, sexual emotions and everything about it rather than focusing more on action – thing that many people want to witness in books like these. However, as the subtitle says it clearly – what we really want from sex and how to get it, the book by Marty Klein will prove to be an eye-opener rather than an erection-support. Books about sex, for most people, should be full of pictures, positions, ways to have interesting sex and so on… However, there are readers who want to understand the abstract enigma that sex is. For the latter, this book by a sex therapist will do the job. …