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Kaityy Mar 30, 2024

I'm a trans girl 🏳️‍⚧️ !!

https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/10522018

I'm a trans girl 🏳️‍⚧️ !! - Blåhaj Lemmy

I’ve never really felt fully comfortable being open about myself on big platforms like Reddit, but on here it feels a lot safer, especially since adopting better digital hygiene. So I’m just kinda saying it explicitly for the first time that I’m a trans girl. I like myself, I like my body, even if it’s not perfect yet, and I like being pretty. I’m even slowly coming out more and more in real life too! Idk, everyone congratulate me or something haha Things are hard, but I like how accepting the federated side of the internet has been so far to me.

VeganTomato Mar 31, 2024

You can be a biologically-male woman all you want, that is your choice and your right, but you need to make sure not to give kids the wrong idea because they are young and impressionable and it could make them confused. Boys need to understand that they are not women and will never be women, their role isn’t to bear children, it’s to meet a woman and be the father of a child.

Floshie Mar 31, 2024

Oof your comment is wrong in sooooooo many dimensions

VeganTomato Mar 31, 2024

Nothing I said is in any way wrong my dear. A man’s role isn’t to bear children, it is to meet a woman and father a child with her. I don’t know if you noticed but we aren’t capable of bearing children, we’re not seahorses, we’re mammals, and in mammals the females bear the children.

basic biology when advanced biology walks in 😎

fr tho being female/male/intersex should not ever dictate who u get to be as a person and what ur societal roles are allowed to be. fuck that ancient conservative belief and just accept us for being who we are.

VeganTomato Mar 31, 2024

Do you really want children to be confused and mutilate themselves under the false idea that they are girls when they’re really just using their imaginations?

rivvvver Mar 31, 2024

no, i dont. and thats why i support trans kids instead of forcing them to live as who i decide them to be based on their fucking genitalia alone.

VeganTomato Mar 31, 2024

Have you ever thought that “trans kids” might just be some poor confused kids just playing dress up and having fun, that’s what I was growing up. It would’ve fucked me up beyond belief if someone made me become a girl. Yet that’s what you’re suggesting for these other kids who are likely in similar situations.

rivvvver Mar 31, 2024

nono, im not suggesting forcing any gender on children. they can play dress up all they like, and if its ever more than dressup, i will still support them if its what they want.

Schmoo Mar 31, 2024

I reject the premise that a child can be momentarily confused and end up getting full gender reassignment surgery. That’s just conservative fear-mongering that is willfully ignorant of all that’s involved in gender-affirming care.

VeganTomato Mar 31, 2024

Not momentarily confused, I mean deeply confused for a long period of time, are you deliberately misunderstanding me?

Schmoo Mar 31, 2024

You can be a biologically-male woman all you want, that is your choice and your right, but you need to make sure not to give kids the wrong idea because they are young and impressionable and it could make them confused. Boys need to understand that they are not women and will never be women, their role isn’t to bear children, it’s to meet a woman and be the father of a child.

And being “deeply confused” for a male child means not wanting to act out the traditional role of marrying a woman and bearing children?

From your original comment:

You can be a biologically-male woman all you want, that is your choice and your right

But then you say:

Boys need to understand that they are not women and will never be women, their role isn’t to bear children, it’s to meet a woman and be the father of a child.

So which is it? Is it the right of any person to identify as they choose, or must you act out the traditional (conservative) gender role predetermined by your biological sex?

VeganTomato Mar 31, 2024

It is imperative that one have biological children to help carry on the species.

Schmoo Mar 31, 2024

That’s a fine perspective to have, the moral imperative to have children is a common enough feature of various religions and cultures. It is, however, just one perspective. One which you have no right to force onto others.

Here’s my perspective:

Every person has the inalienable right to self determination. One’s body is inviolable and subject to one’s own will alone. Having children is a personal choice that no one else can decide for you.

You are entitled to your opinion just as I am entitled to mine. By all means, be fruitful and multiply, but don’t demand that trans people hide themselves from children because you’re afraid of the ideas they might have. If you agree that people have the right to choose then you should have no problem with it being an informed choice.

Quacksalber Mar 31, 2024

Biological children, huh… You must be especially triggered to spam like an idiot, you little snowflake. As if you’d be anything but a temporary inconvenience.

Nath Mar 31, 2024

Kids do not care. They need to be taught how to be bigoted.

VeganTomato Mar 31, 2024

So you think kids should be made to transition their gender, even if they’re just playing pretend?