Have watched the first episode of #EscapingUtopia - the doco about #Gloriavale and holy crap everyone in Aotearoa should see this. I had no idea. The show is really well done so far. While it is a heavy topic, it focuses a lot on the people helping others escape and seek justice, and that makes a difference.

CW for show: sexual, psychological, and spiritual abuse. It's about a controlling religious cult, so pretty much everything you'd expect from that.

#TVShows #Cults

My parents also just watched this. This morning Dad sent this about egalitarian communes vs hierarchical ones and the power dynamics which exist in both.

https://communelifeblog.wordpress.com/2023/05/22/egalitarian-power-dynamics/

Egalitarian Power Dynamics

by Raven Almost all of the communes (income-sharing communities) that we feature here are associated with the Federation of Egalitarian Communities.  It’s important that these communes are see…

commune life

@HeatherInNZ yikes. My first day officially living in Aotearoa involved the wedding of one of the founder's granddaughters, making her my ex's sister in law.

She had a lot of gnarly stories, but mostly was raised outside of the cult, with a constant stream of refugees in their home, having to learn how to live in the majority society.

Her uncle, one of Neville Cooper's (Hopeful Christian, I think he renamed himself) sons wrote a book about his story. The main thing I remember is that...

@HeatherInNZ ...the more people disagreed, and left, the fewer voices of opposition there were, and the more insular and screwy the place got.
@DodgyKnee Yikes, that's a nasty dynamic. The episode talks about the history, how it was more like a hippie commune at first and how much it changed over time.
@HeatherInNZ @DodgyKnee yeah my parents were early members and described it as a Christian version of the back-to-the-land counterculture. Akin to kibbutzim. (They ran away in 1977 when things started getting weird)
@Ms_Pym @DodgyKnee Wow! Lucky for you they decided to leave when they did, I suppose.