It’s not that its far fetched its just…the way its written. I mean I have literally been in this situation as a straight dude so yes, this happens lol.
But this post just sounds like tumblr crap.
A compliment is a compliment no matter who it comes from.
This just feels like ‘and here is the moral of the story dear reader’
That’s what it is to you. Thats a very strange over the top reaction as well. All people are saying, at least me, can’t speak for the other guy is…while yes…things like this do happen (and have happened to me) this particular post is pretty poorly written and feels like typical tumblr reblog bait. Good things happen. That doesn’t mean we cant look at a very poorly written ‘good thing’ story and say ‘yeah that probably didn’t happen’.
It feels like an attempt to smother any possibility that there might be happiness elsewhere in the world
I’m sorry but do you always go through life assuming the worst of people like this?
You’re right, that was over the top. It exaggeration as a poor attempt to make my point, and I did that because I felt you were deliberately avoiding answering my initial question. I apologize for my ineptness in making my point.
(The point was it doesn’t matter if this story is fake even if someone made it to farm internet clout.)
So all fake stories should just be treated as real no matter how obviously fake? But only if they are wholesome?
For example if I posted this would you be defending it with this much hostility? It’s very wholesome after all.
I am not sure how I am putting words in your mouth. You say don’t call out fake stories. Simple as that. So i am questioning how far we should go with that. Do you defend the picture I posted as well as something we must not question?
It feels like an attempt to smother any possibility that there might be happiness elsewhere in the world.
And I am sorry but nobody on earth could possibly interpret this as anything other then pure toxicity. You have apologized for your behavior and that’s great, but don’t backtrack and pretend it wasn’t anything but pure negativity now.
This will be my last reply, because I have no interest in a keyboard fight.
If you don’t accept my apology, that’s your right, but don’t pretend you know enough about me to say what the motivations behind what I say are.
I hope you could get the medical help you need to get rid of such a dark mind
Wow, the call is definitely coming from inside the house on this one.
Now cry as all you know are the insults you memorised in high school and can’t make a solid argument.
This you?
I wasn’t “getting” at anything, I was genuinely asking what about the story upset you so much.
Based on your answer you are upset by the story because you believe it to be fake? If I’m correct, why is that?
I’m sure you don’t believe me either, but when my friend came out in his early 20s I went with him to gay bars like a half dozen times to show support. Every time I would get compliments, and it was really a pleasant exchange like this except instead of girlfriend being around I let them know I was there to help a friend feel comfortable.
Two times they bought me a drink, and I was never made to feel unwelcome since I was there to be supportive.
Plus the compliments really did make me feel good about myself.
Even my sorry ass has experienced this …sorta kinda… once, but no drinks, and only one person sort of maybe seemed to be interested … a little. Or maybe I was just imagining it…
Damn now I don’t feel so good about myself 😂
Nah this is common, in the US at least. Details lending credence:
OK I just read the adjacent threads. It appears other users were being somewhat overly aggressive and hyperbolic in their disagreement with your opinion, but it also looks like you doubled down and escalated when you didn’t have to, and ended up taking on multiple people unnecessarily.
Free advice:
Good luck