An issue I have with fedi is you're really held back from saying anything that would upset a bunch of minors and 18 year olds who you don't remotely share a worldview with

Doesn't matter if it's your own instance on your own profile when people act like the whole network has to follow their moral views
I feel like in some ways this holds me personally back from my own character growth because not every way I want to grow is in line with what fedi wants, which does have me thinking that one day this won't be for me anymore
@eris Are the people holding you back that important to you?
@eris like what?
@lamp I'd say so but *points to post* you'll just have to accept the vagueness
@eris People have...different worldviews?
@[email protected] I'm also curious why you're running into this issue so frequently. I've never had a problem with even a single minor on my posts (and tbh if I did I would promptly block them).

Maybe you're just in a Fedi circle that has a lot of problematic minors in it?
@spots1000 it's because people like to see me as some fedi celebrity so what I say ends up the discourse when there's nothing better to discourse about