Masculinity in Crisis - Lemmy.World

Some domestic violence centre near me got closed down because feminists kept protesting its existence.

Feminists got things to answer for.

Men aren’t always the issue. Men need male places, women don’t like that. Men can be victims, women don’t like that. What I seen in the world men are a lot more sympathetic to mens issue. Women just brush it off and say all mens issues are due to men and that really women are the victims.

Nah. Feminists didn’t create the mess that systemically harms men. What actually creates it is systemic patriarchy. If you’ve never heard of Earl Silverman, give his story a read. He did try to create many of the things you advocate for, and the things that caused their failure was not feminists. It’s a tragedy.

That being said, we absolutely still need non toxic spaces where men can heal and be great allies to themselves and others

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Earl_Silverman

Earl Silverman - Wikipedia

So all feminists have completely clean hands?

That’s the issue I’m raising.

As in the real world I’ve seen issues from women but not issues from men. But you go online and no women has ever done anything wrong and all men as bastards.

Probably nobody has completely clean hands. Are you suggesting that only perfect people can attempt good work and all others are suspect?

I’m saying women can be toxic. They can treat can treat men badly. They even claim to be feminists. But other women will never admit this issue is with women.

Instead they will say the real cause is the patriarchy.

All I can say is I’ve never, or at least can’t remember any mental health issues I’ve had or heard about men having caused by thr patriarchy. Short term things like getting angry and fighting yes, but it’s only been short term shit that’s been resolved. Actual guys struggling with mental health that is due to a non family memeber from a person has always been due to women. But that isn’t a real issue is it? There must be something else causing it because women can’t ever be in the wrong.

Honestly fuck it. No one cares. This is why feminism doesn’t work between sexes. Men can’t have issues with women or the culture that women are responsible for. Women just want to be on the right side and they want men to be on the wrong side.