Masculinity in Crisis - Lemmy.World

Some domestic violence centre near me got closed down because feminists kept protesting its existence.

Feminists got things to answer for.

Men aren’t always the issue. Men need male places, women don’t like that. Men can be victims, women don’t like that. What I seen in the world men are a lot more sympathetic to mens issue. Women just brush it off and say all mens issues are due to men and that really women are the victims.

Nah. Feminists didn’t create the mess that systemically harms men. What actually creates it is systemic patriarchy. If you’ve never heard of Earl Silverman, give his story a read. He did try to create many of the things you advocate for, and the things that caused their failure was not feminists. It’s a tragedy.

That being said, we absolutely still need non toxic spaces where men can heal and be great allies to themselves and others

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Earl_Silverman

Earl Silverman - Wikipedia

Their point is that a lot of women, and possibly most women, are not feminists. Which means they enforce patriarchy, as do most people who aren’t feminists.

Equating women with feminists is dangerous and counterproductive

Equating women with feminists is dangerous and counterproductive

Duh. A lot of men like me are feminists. A lot more of them are ones without realising it.

Also no shit not all women are feminists. Phillis Schlafely, Amy Coney Barrett, and plenty of others. Hell internalized misogyny is a major topic in any modern feminist theory.

Feminism isn’t just telling women “hey do whatever you want” it’s saying “analyze your choices and behaviors and work to remove the systemic social barriers placed on you” and it often finds its pioneers surpassed in their lifetime. Many suffragettes were uncomfortable with women taking traditionally male jobs.