Some domestic violence centre near me got closed down because feminists kept protesting its existence.

Feminists got things to answer for.

Men aren’t always the issue. Men need male places, women don’t like that. Men can be victims, women don’t like that. What I seen in the world men are a lot more sympathetic to mens issue. Women just brush it off and say all mens issues are due to men and that really women are the victims.

Nah. Feminists didn’t create the mess that systemically harms men. What actually creates it is systemic patriarchy. If you’ve never heard of Earl Silverman, give his story a read. He did try to create many of the things you advocate for, and the things that caused their failure was not feminists. It’s a tragedy.

That being said, we absolutely still need non toxic spaces where men can heal and be great allies to themselves and others

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Earl_Silverman

So all feminists have completely clean hands?

That’s the issue I’m raising.

As in the real world I’ve seen issues from women but not issues from men. But you go online and no women has ever done anything wrong and all men as bastards.

Not the case at all. I’m a big fan of bell hooks for example, but she’s not perfect. Still, she raises good points, like feminism is for everyone and that patriarchy can hurt men just as much as women.

Internet’s an echo chamber, so it’s good to get out and just talk to real people and ask them what’s important.