So... I'm being judge because the instance I choose?

https://lemmy.ml/post/12623724

So... I'm being judge because the instance I choose? - Lemmy

When I signed up for Lemmy, I didn’t know about some wars that existed between instances, and when I chose lemmy.ml [http://lemmy.ml] and I thought, “Why not?”. Tbh, dont think too much about instances. I signed up because I wanted to get the full Lemmy experience, but I don’t know if some instances block the instance I’m connected , and this is a bit confusing for me. At the beginning, when I joined Lemmy, I remember reading that it is advisable to choose the instance carefully, and I even assume that it was my mistake, but I think it could be a little easier for those who enter the fediverse. I guess. Know nothing at this time. So, the question is there. Do you judge members by instance? I’m just a normal guy; I don’t like the extreme right or extreme communism. In fact, I think all extremism is stupid. But , if you could enlighten me on this, I would appreciate it. At this point, I don’t know if I’m blocked by some instances or not. Basically, I want to enjoy having the entire Lemmy experience, where I could read all types of content.

I’ve had people guess that I’m probably Canadian since I use lemmy.ca, but for me, generally, I don’t judge people by their instance since I don’t default to looking for it and my default apps don’t display it, but when I’ve gotten into frustrating circular arguments with people I have often noticed that they’re from lemmy.ml.

Personally I think this is why Bluesky’s ATProtocol design of not tying identity to instance is a good thing, but that’s a little neither here nor there.

At this point, I guess choosing a instance from any country is the best way lol
This is why I threw in with the Star Trek fans. I’m only moderately familiar with Trek but I know these nerds will be nice to everyone.