It sounds like a lot of mastodon people want to post in public but also have everybody leave them alone as if it's not public. As far as I can see, their current strategy for achieving this is yelling very loudly in public posts hoping everyone else will see it and then shift everything around in order to accommodate them.

It's a bold strategy. I look forward to finding out if it works.

@polotek I often find myself going back and forth between two models of how this will play out. (a) Sure. This is the start of something new. We’ll figure out better ways to communicate, thus transforming the collective experience over time. (b) lol. It’s new people coming and going every day, each having to learn the lesson anew. Look around. This is the eternal now. Nothing will change ever. Just like in all the other places.
@polotek of course the truth is somewhere in the middle, mostly driven by a bit of structural factors, incentives, and demographic changes in the user base. It’s also weird how this feels quite conservative. “People don’t change. Find a way to make the world work as is.” - not true about individuals, but maybe about how the group of users of social media is structured? There’ll always be x% gullible, y% bad people, z% well-meaning and willing to learn.
@polotek good thing: if you don’t amplify the second group to put it in front of the first, it might actually work somewhat :)