It's up to you to break generational trauma

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It's up to you to break generational trauma - Feddit

Gen-x erasure as usual.
Gen-x? Is that like an X-men comic book or something?
The greatest trick gen-x ever pulled was convincing the world it didn’t exist.
Somebody called Skibidi toilet ā€œthe Generation Alpha’s first cultural contributionā€.
Gen alpha is using source film maker? I’m not down with latest machinina tech but that seems to me like millennials using vinyl. Rad.
SFM has been the patron saint of shitpost videos for decades. It has a certain je ne sais quoi that’s not easily replicated, you can always tell when something has been made in SFM and I think it’s become a part of the DNA of that subset of memes.
Was that J.J. McCullough?
I’m a millennial and I don’t understand why anyone from my generation would have a problem with zoomers. Y’all are good people.

I think a lot of the millennial drama is manufactured. The generational drama in general is.

Not that generation gaps don’t exist, but generally we’re pretty tolerant of each other at the younger/lefter end. Even most of the disagreement around Gaza is more fueled by political position than age imo, once you allowed the newcomers to the conflict the time to get up to speed on it. Which did take a little time. It’s kinda complicated.

There are definitely large numbers of people trying to manufacture conflict in pretty much every way they can think of, though. Some bots, some volunteers, probably even some paid people, world is a big place and labor can be cheap. Fortunately Lemmings generally seem to be a harder target.

I’m a millennial. I love my zoomer comrades. Even if I don’t understand their stuff, I still respect their whole thing and the fact that they’re inheriting a different world with different experiences than what I did, which is really all my generation was ever asking for and never received. I feel more like a significantly older sibling to gen z than a do an entire generational step older. We generally agree on a lot of the same shit. They’re paying more attention to current events than I was when I was younger, and unfortunately it’s kinda more necessary for them to because we didn’t do a good enough job at that until maybe 5-10 years ago.

Sorry if I’m wrong and I’m the exception rather than the rule. Keep zoomin’, zoomers šŸ¤™

Idk man, Zoomers got broccoli heads though.

Jk they’re cool.

I grew my broccoli head out and now I have luscious curly locks šŸ‘

Much better imo

They may have broccoli, but at least we have Celery Man.
I don’t really get the skibidi toilet, but I can appreciate it when someone posts an ai recreation of Micheal Jackson singing it.
I feel the actual ā€œskibidi toiletā€ is more of a gen alpha thing, what you see from gen z is mostly just people satirizing it

or profiting off of it on many different fronts

i’ve seen a couple pretty dumb (and successful!) attempts on roblox lmao

I teach Gen Alpha and most that reference it do so ā€œironicallyā€, and many think it’s dumb or overdone at this point.
As a millennial, I do not understand Skibidy Toilet, but will embrace the weird because it is actual art in its purest form and makes people feel differently in almost every possible way when you see it; renaissance painters would have killed to see people respond to their art the way everyone in contemporary times react to this shit.
I honestly think it’s kind of funny. It’s just so stupid. Reminds me of early YouTube
The plot though, its got plot!

Skibidy toilet is just part of the modernist version of dada. I’ve (a millennial) always loved dadaism and absurdism as art and my zoomer kids make me so proud showing me their humor.

www.thecollector.com/dadaism-art-of-dada/

Dadaism: 12 Iconic Artworks From The Dada Art Movement

The Dada period rebelled against the dominant political and cultural narrative. Here are major Dadaist paintings, sculptures, and collages.

TheCollector
As another millenial, this thread is the first time I’ve heard of Skibidy Toilet, and I’m wondering if I should bother to look up what it is.
Do or don’t, we just gotta be good to our fellow peeps as the earth keeps spinning. I still haven’t looked it up, and it’s fine šŸ˜‰
Millennial here, skibidi toilet is, sadly, really amusing and I… Enjoy it
Trust me, it’s like the dumb shit we watched when we discovered the weird internet, just using half-life characters and 3d animation. If you’ve ever enjoyed ā€œAll your baseā€, you have no right to complain!

Another millenial here. I didn’t know what it was until this thread either. After just now finishing binge-ing through all of the episodes (not that bad as they’re all shorts), I’m going to recommend watching it.

It IS fucking weird and absurdist (and I don’t care for the music style, so, was near mute). Honestly though, especially for something produced by a teenager, the cinematography and cohesive visual storytelling is really impressive.

I hope they continue to hone their skills and maintain their artistic interest. And, possibly, take their talent to directing.

The circle has already been broken, as ~zoomer, the vast majority of millennials I interacted with were really nice people.
As a millennial, the vast majority of zoomers I've interacted with have been cool.
Yeah that’s been my experience as well and I work for a bar. Most of my coworkers in that generation have been easier to get along with, easier to communicate with and don’t visibly panic at a ā€œdead insideā€ joke. Direct contrast to my last workplace with more millennials/boomers. Ive yet to cop inter-generational shit talking from zoomers so they sure won’t get it from me. Plus look what they did with memes.
Same, I’m not sure who this meme is really intended for
I’m a millennial and I love you guys, my aim is to be kinder and more helpful to y’all than our predecessors were to us
Gen Xers have always been pretty cool, as long as you don’t expect them to care about much. I get the feeling that the close proximity to the Boomers really took it out of them.
I have a lot of sympathy for them in general and plenty of them are pretty cool, but the product of not caring is that there a lot of selfish asshole xers, I don’t hold it as a rule, but they certainly didn’t try to support or guide us much in my experience
We did the work so you don’t have to. šŸ˜

I’m a really young zoomer and most millenials I interacted with were also really nice.

But there were also a few jerks

Life, in a nutshell haha.

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I am that dude they were complaining about. They used me as some sort of representative to attack the rest of you with.

I came really close to owning a home one time. It was just outside of this really terrible neighborhood and only cost 20k. This was in 2015. The house was small, but it had a barn, a chicken coop, a big area for horses that the neighbor was using (and I agreed to continue to let them use it if they’d teach my kids to ride the horses). A drive down the hillside led to trash and drugs. Somehow it didn’t extend up the hill yet.

Actually I know why it didn’t. In 2001 the neighborhood below it was flooded. The folks who lived there for years and kept it nice took the fema bucks and rolled out. The houses sold for 4-6k and the people who migrated over from the poorest part of West Virginia didn’t even bother repairing them. They just moved right in.

That killed the property value all around it, which was fine with me.

We were all set to close on the loan when I caught my ex cheating and my whole life caved in. Oh well, such is life.

It kind of stings to think I’d own it right now and a chance like that probably won’t ever happen again. The problems would have probably spread up that way eventually though and I’d regret moving there. That helps a bit.

Take this fist bump, fellow cheating-partner-cost-me-a-house human.

sad fist bump

Sucks don’t it?

I learned a lot about life through all that mess though.

I’d forgive her, she’d do it again. She’d say she loved me, then sit up in the bed in the middle of the night and say, ā€œI just don’t love you anymore.ā€ The chaos would start again. I’d go crash with my mom, she’d ask me to come back, then she’d make me leave again after a week or so. This dragged on for about 3 years. The last time I was driving her to work, leaned in to kiss her, seen a mark on her neck. I rolled out, she was fine with that. I met someone else, she lost her damn mind. Ended up being committed, finally settled down with the last guy she cheated with, was diagnosed with breast cancer and died at 33.

Fortunately for her, he is a great dude. He took care of her and stayed by her side through all of that hell. He still maintains an active role in my daughter’s life and he doesn’t have to do that. She’s there now actually. She’s been there for a couple weeks.

I learned that I have control over nothing. Every aspect of my life is one moment away from pure chaos and destruction, so I’m thankful for what I have while I have it. Nothing is promised, nothing is permanent. I find meaning and comfort in exactly this moment and I’m ok with that. When the hard times come, I will survive them until I eventually don’t. That is reality for all of us, I’m not special, and anyone who finds me special will find me special for a time. Believe it or not, I have peace.

Sorry for all involved. But yeah, we all just… Exist. We choose to make meaning for ourselves, if we want to.

It’s crazy. She was my meaning for so long. I started seeing her wish she was 14 (lied and said she was 15) and I was just about to turn 18. The final split happened when she was 30 and I was 34.

It’s funny. She told me she was moving in with me when she turned 18. She did. She packed her bags and came to stay. About 3 days in I got a call at work, ā€œIf you don’t bring my daughter home, you and your roommate are going to jail.ā€ I stupidly replied, ā€œWell, she’s 18 so you can kiss my ass.ā€ Her mother was abusive as hell, or so she said. The girl couldn’t tell the truth, seriously. I learned to take everything she said with a grain of salt and loved her any way. Everywhere she went she had some big story though. Anyway, I hung up the phone and less than a minute later it rang again, ā€œI don’t know what Miss Lie About Everything told you, but she just turned 17. Bring her home or go to jail.ā€

I confronted her, ā€œI’m so sorry, I was just so into you and I knew you wouldn’t be interested if I told you the truth, and what’s one year? At this point I was too embarrassed and I didn’t know what to do. I hoped she just wouldn’t care that I was gone.ā€ (Which is an indicator that her stories of abuse were true).

A couple months later I had forgiven her, a year later she packed her bags and came again.

Her mom and grandma showed up and tried to get her to leave. Right to my face her mom said, ā€œHe’s worthless honey. Is this the life you want?ā€ Her grandma chimed in, ā€œPlease come home. We love you so much.ā€

She stayed. Nearly 15 years, not counting the time we spent close before that. I literally didn’t believe she’d ever cheat. I was special her. I meant something. I really didn’t think she’d do it.

But she did.

Somehow I’m doing better than ever despite all of that chaos. I’m with someone that I really get along with, someone who I love to go out of my way for. It’s a whole different world. I hope she never leaves, but if she does, I know I’ll make it.

Take care bud.

There’s a thin line between anguished despair and nihilistic optimism.

A thin, intentional line.

It can be alluded to, highlighted, charted, and otherwise discussed ad-infinitum, but it’s damn near impossible to lead another to.

Only have one comment to read (and I’m sorry how much it cost) but it looks like you’re at peace indeed.

Kudos to you, but remember you can backslide in acceptance and working back out is okay too!

I think boomers to millennials would make more sense. Boomers are so hateful and desperate to keep what was promised to them that they will hold on to it even if it costs 3 generations of people almost everything.
They were hating on us Gen Xers while we were still in grade school. Giving us shit for the participation ribbons, they bought and handed out to us
They invented participation ribbons and trophies, I’m almost convinced, just so they could give them to us millenials and you Xers on field day and immediately shit on us for involutarily receiving them in fucking kindergarten.
Let’s normalise calling boomers the participation trophy generation
Is the circle even real? Some of the nicest people I’ve interacted with in my entire life were Baby Boomers. I’ve met shittier Gen Xers and Millennials than Baby Boomers.
It’s all bullshit, just generated for people to hate someone other then the ones they should be.
Sharing skibidi toilet with everyone across the Fediverse - I’ve been doing my part! :-P (few have ever heard of it, even fewer like it, none understand it -> it’s perfect art!:-D)
The zoomers are calling us cringe
It's true, we're so lame
We did come out of the womb with dad jokes
Yeah stop being mean to me
Weird sfm is nothing new tbh
One particular SFM being this popular is new though.