It's time to admit Lemmy has won the "the biggest reddit alternative" award, why it's time for all of us to consider supporting it (here's why) + reopening r/LemmyMigration

https://lemmy.nz/post/5130246

It's time to admit Lemmy has won the "the biggest reddit alternative" award, why it's time for all of us to consider supporting it (here's why) + reopening r/LemmyMigration - Lemmy NZ

I know this comment could receive some negative feedback, but Lemmy lacks diversity in its userbase, compared to Reddit (or Tumblr in the old times). It’s just a feeling, when I scroll through comments and posts on Lemmy, I picture most of the users as 16-45 yo white males.
I get more of an impression that lemmy is full of far left leaning programmers. I think that is a good subset of people to have on a social media platform. But if we had more subs on other topics it should bring in other types of people.

The reason you don’t get many “normal” people here is that the community is absurdly hostile to anyone on the “normal person” spectrum.

If you’re not a spoftware-pirating techbro obsessed with “privacy,” a leftist, or a furry, this place generally shits on you.

I very frequently post incredibly lukewarm takes for any mainstream community, and literally get called a Nazi. I have stalkers lol.

I, personally, tend to have “normal” views but significantly more resilience to online communities than “normal” people - which is why I still come here. Most normal people left back before this place even defederated from Hexbear. They ain’t coming back.

Until mods of what are essentially “default” communities get serious about growth instead of wanting “their” spaces, Lemmy is never going to grow. Most people don’t find getting blasted with piss-takes by Marxists funny the way I do.

Your example does not show what you think it does, though. Are you sure you posted the right link?

Dude made a simple joke in the same vein as the other joke and was downvotes because it didn’t “toe the line” so yes it’s exactly what I wanted to link.

If you can’t shitpost, there’s another huge chunk of people gone.

You’re delusional. They’re harmlessly joking. And needlessly aggressive.
I’m defending that person’s joke.

Who cares about downvotes though, honestly? I was expecting some piss-poor Marxist take, because that’s what you mentioned in your comment, but didn’t find one. I know they exist though, I’ve browsed Lemmygrad before.

I see what you meant to with your posting of that link, though… Maybe you need to be a bit less sensitive? You’re going to have a hard time on here with a sensitivity threshold so low. 12-ish downvotes never killed anyone. Nobody cancelled anyone, nobody got called a nazi. Nobody got censored or deplatformed. Chill out 😁

Who cares about downvotes though, honestly?

Your average person cares very much, and this topic is about getting more of them to join lemmy.

Do you have any source confirming that the average person cares about downvotes? Did you consider lurkers? I’m not convinced, myself, but I have nothing to back my position.

I thought the topic was to show that redditors were talking about Lemmy, I did not know it was about getting more people aboard. There was no such indication in the community’s sidebar, or in the post itself.

But now that you mention it, lots of people are talking about that in the comments. Maybe I just shouldn’t be here!

Do you have any source confirming that the average person cares about downvotes?

Asking for a source on this is silly. Go to any reddit thread.

I thought the topic was to show that redditors were talking about Lemmy

The thread linked is a person trying to convince people to come to lemmy.

That’s what I thought, this is a gut feeling, which I guess is as good as mine.

I know the person on Reddit is trying to get people to join, but I interpreted the linking as a way to say “look, reddit is talking about us”. Which, as you suggest, is not the right interpretation.

I have no interest in participating in Lemmy’s market strategy workshops. Enjoy your day!

It’s social disapproval; most people care about social approval–it’s human nature. When googling the question, Ican’t find scientific studies, but general conversation where pretty much everyone involved agrees that downvotes are at least disappointing and at can make people not want to participate.