@mindpersephone absolutely, cw's I'm so behind. You've always cw'd well from memory which is great because I like a lot of people do have limits and triggers in some lewd content. But I can just look at the cw's, and not read it. And if I do read it anyway (I'm also not very bright so this happens) that's kinda on me.

The "shame I'm not into this" has been on my mind recently too with d/s dynamics. I've seen people post "I want someone to dominate" type comment and the first response will be "oh shame I want to dominate you" or vice versa "I'm a sub" and "shame, I'm a sub too and I want to be dominated". I know I've done it before, but I'm trying to be conscious about it because it's either blaming a creator like you for writing something not aimed at someone, or worse blaming a person for not being the right kind of lewd target for them.

Sorry that got away from me a bit obviously I was more annoyed about it than I thought 😅