Brenda rule - Mander

That would just give the racist uncle what they want. Fuck that. The racist uncle wants to put you in a low status place like the kids’ table so he doesn’t hsve to pretend you’re an equal and can regard you as an inferior.
It doesn’t matter. Racist uncle is going to die early from a heart attack and those kids are going to be the people in charge when you’re needing to be cared for- invest in them.

It matters to me and literally everyone else.

Racist uncle will live to his high 70’s, early 80’s on average.

And all those kids will do is grow up to resent your iniquities and cowardice for refusing to stand up to racist uncle, because they know you only address them because they are weaker than you and easier for you to influence.

But have fun defending racist uncle, cousin alt-righter. Don’t tip your fedora too hard

You’re so far off the mark there’s nowhere for me to begin 🤦‍♀️ good luck with your family bud, sounds like you have a lot of work to do.
They said racist uncle and you turned him into racist raping uncle. Those are different and would need different reactions.