So, I've recently met someone who will need a safe word with me. 😏

For anyone with experience: is our own name a decent idea? 🤔 I figured saying one's own name is weird enough to put a break on the moment and it's not something that would ever come up normally. Plus, it's easy to remember. I'm not so good that I can make you forget your name. 🤣

Like, do we *really* need to pick "filibuster" or "positron" or whatever the crap? 😅 🤭