Why can't I argue against claims of suffering?

https://lemm.ee/post/15994464

Why can't I argue against claims of suffering? - lemm.ee

be beloved problematic cishet white comedian man
I don’t get to decide whether or not I hurt somebody
sad trombone noises

Most of you would rather get mad at me for not taking this as a self evident truth, instead of just explaining it to me. That’s interesting.
Who are you?

Ah, the eternal question.

The eternal answer : “I don’t know”.