I don’t know that I understand the question. Whose claims of suffering are we talking about?

Ok here’s an example.

Bob : “When I put on a dress people look at me funny, which is hurtful.”

Rob : “Meh, you don’t look very hurt to me.”

BAM. Rob has argued against Bob’s suffering, which is a sin. And now everybody will justifiably hate on you. Granted.

But why, exactly? What’s the logic here? Why does suffering get excepted from analysis?

I think you’re suffering from thinking people care that much about what you have said. Your comments are not so important that they matter to anyone.

You dare to minimize my suffering?