@RickiTarr None. I know that sometimes conflict and harm is inescapable but there's a lot of that that isn't necessarily abuse or repetitive. And sometimes we're horrible to each other without knowing or intending it which can cross the line into abuse if no one catches it in time and steps should be taken when someone does. Ideally none. As little as possible.
@RickiTarr Ultimately this would be none. I think it will take a long time to teach people how fucked up some things we're taught to do all the time and treat as just as innocuous as saying hi are. Some don't and I just. Don't let them back in now.