why do lemmy users hate the use of emojis ?

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why do lemmy users hate the use of emojis ? - Infosec.Pub

I’m a heavy emoji user, texting is such a poor medium of communication, many times people get the wrong message, but with an emoji you’ll get an idea of the face I’m making, so less chance of misunderstanding I noticed that every time I add an emoji to a comment it gets downvoted, so I tested my theory, wrote a comment without an emoji, got upvotes, went back and added an emoji, got downvotes… On Reddit people use emojis a lot, on Lemmy I NEVER saw anyone use emojis, my account is new but still for the time I spent here, I never saw the use of emojis So, is it just me, have you noticed this small detail ? and do you miss emojis the way I do ? 😭

They do? 😶

I find usage in posted content to be generally very low, although I agree that if used in a supportive manner they help a lot to differentiate various ways a sentence can be interpreted.

On the contrary, I’ve hardly seen emojis on Reddit while here they appear a lot more frequently.

It might be an issue of the crowd you flock with? I haven’t seen emoji hatred on Lemmy, in fact I recall more support for it.

The only occasions where it’s frowned upon is when they are overused, it can be tiring to read a text littered with an emoji every four words.

For me mostly because I’m not a teenager.

Haven’t noticed much hate on lemmy though as it generally seems to have a younger user base.

At least where I'm from, the teenagers are beginning to shy away from emojis as well, with the exception of one or two that are considered culturally acceptable. Which ones they are seems to fluctuate, so if you're out of the loop you're better off not trying.

Reddit had a whole thing about looking down on emojis for whatever reason. But during the influx over the summer there was a discussion here somewhere about whether we were going to keep that attitude going here, and the general consensus was no because it’s ridiculous.

We’ve been using emojis and their earlier equivalents to help clarify meaning and intent (as well as for humour, obviously) for as long as I’ve been on the internet, which means they’ve been in common use since at least the mid-to-late 90s. I use them all the time, all over Lemmy and Mastodon, and haven’t had anyone comment on it or call it out (except once but that was in a positive way).

It’s possible different communities have different attitudes, but unless you’re using them in an inappropriate way I expect the downvote thing is more of a coincidence (or possibly one person with a weird anti-emoji vendetta, we all know there are weird folks out there) rather than a site-wide culture thing.

p.s. just realised I got through a whole post without any of the things for once so here’s a few of my most often used just to brighten things up 😄 😅 😬 🤓 👍

For me personally, because it annoys me when emojis are used as a lazy replacement for language and it quickly deteriorates into 🥺🥺😭😭😢😭😭😰😰🙏🙏🙏 sort of bullshit.
I also do not have time to learn worse hieroglyphics.
Except the smiley frequently adds to the aura of passive aggression 😀
I use happier looking smiling faces for that 😊
Noticed this already, not so much downvoting, but that people here don’t use emojis. Just a weird subculture norm I guess.
🤷‍♀️
glad I’m not the only one, maybe because people here are techy and older, they’re used to terminals and IDEs, these things don’t utilize emojis AFAIK, it’s def a mentality thing
Modern terminals can display emojis, typing them is still hard though. But yes, older tech crowd is very conservative regarding graphical interfaces, and emojis kinda count as graphics.

Some of it may be an age thing, in my own case, i dislike emojis because i have no idea what most of them are supposed to mean., including the one at the end of your post. So for older folks like me, they make the post look weird, and can make it more difficult for me to understand what it is that you are trying to communicate.

But i wouldn't actually downvote you for it, im just more likely to ignore your post if it is overflowing with emojis.

Additionally there’s not really a good way to enter them, especially when using physical keyboards.
If windows: win+, brings up an emoji picker
Shh, beeg secret… Emojis used to be put in on keyboards long before touchscreens where a thing ;)

If you’re on Windows, you can use Win + .

If you’re on Linux, try ctrl + shift + e

I’m surprised you say you don’t know what the 😭 face means, since it’s just exaggerated crying. Is it because they’re too small, or that you suspect there’s some implied agreement/subtext you’re not party to?

I can see why people wouldn’t know what something like 🍆 is used to represent, since it’s not for the intended (I assume…) use.

Hate is a strong word. I’d say I dislike them. And it’s probably only because I’m not a teenager.

I feel like most people (assuming you’re not on Reddit) don’t really care, so long as you’re not being spammy with them (or not just reply with only an emoji).

Every now and then I’ll tack one on at the end of a comment if I think that my tone might come of a bit more passive aggressive than I intended it to be, but most of the time I just see it as “I might need to rewrite this so that it doesn’t come off that way” instead.

Why do you even give a shit?
Use as many or as few emojis as you like, why waste your time and energy caring about some imaginary internet points?
My thoughts exactly. Do downvotes offend you that much? Like, who cares? Just use whatever you want. This is the internet, it’s not that serious.

I don’t care about points, I can’t even see how much I have…lol

And that’s not nice to talk like that, like if we apply your rule on you

Why do you care about what I care about ? I’m a stranger

Lmfao..
You posed a question publicly and I answered it, mostly because I was bored and genuinely couldn't understand why anyone would give a fuck, don't try to turn your discomfort on me lol.
Your whole post is about your comments being downvoted, if you can't see the points, how do you even know in such detail how your comments are being voted? That must mean you are going out of your way to find out.. 🤔😂
(I'll save you the time replying - I don't give a shit, I'll be blocking you and moving on with my life, I would recommend working on caring less what others think of you)
It’s annoying if someone sends only a single emoji like 😂. Like I don’t need your reaction I need your WORDS OF WISDOM (discussion). Especially on a public forum.
Yeah I see a comment like that or just “lol” as something that should have just been an upvote. And then because I’m cynical, I also assume they didn’t upvote.
I love emoji, the haters will have to pry them from my cold dead hands 😤
Emojis are fine here. Maybe you just have opinions that don’t align with those of other users with whom you’ve interacted.

I won’t dislike your post, but I generally don’t like it.

What does that emoji at the end of your post mean. Are you physically crying. Is it symbolic to mean you are unhappy or sad or disheartened or something else that I couldn’t think of.

Now imagine if you do a string of those and me trying to figure it out.

I mean with keyboards now, it is probably faster swiping out the phrase :”This saddens me” than that emoji.

Too Zoomer like 🤷‍♂️
I much prefer emoticons over emojis, but I couldn't tell you why.
Because we’re the last of the old guard? I’m gen z, and honestly I still prefer emoticons, probably because I grew used to them before emoji
Older GenZ and I remember sometime in my mid teens most chat apps started automatically converting emoticons into emojis. It bugged me to hell and back you either had to swap :) to =) or turn them back to front to avoid getting “emojified”
I’ve turned to adding a ZWSP (no width Unicode) between the : and ) parts of the character, that works pretty well. It’s a bit of a hassle, of course
Oh, nice tip! Any good way of emulating that on a mobile Android keyboard? Or do you just copy and paste a lot? Perhaps this could be done with a custom autocorrect dictionary injury?
Nothing beats O.o and :/ for me
Personally, it’s because emojis are just tiny yellow dots on my phone’s screen.
Stupid question : what is the difference between an emoji and an emoticon?
Emoticon is made with text characters like this " :) "

Not a stupid question! This is an emoticon:

:(

And this is an emoji: 🙁

I use both at random just depending on how lazy I’m feeling or if I know the shortcode for a particular emoji off by heart. All gets the point across just the same :D
It might be an attention thing. With an emoji in a post your eyes are drawn towards the cute colorful picture before you l’ve read the content of the post. Emoticons on the other hand don’t stand out as much, but serve a similar purpose: punctuate a thought with an emotion (=

Honestly, as long as you’re not going for a clickbait-like thing with lots of 😂, 😭, and 💀, when is not really justified, I don’t really see an issue.

Personally I’ll use ✨, ☺️, 🌸, and 🥺 regularly in my comments as I think they’re cute 🥺✨

Oh, you reminded me with ads that starts with emojis like 🚨 or political posts that are just propaganda…

I used to see a lot of these on Facebook and Gab ( now ), so I just assume the post is going to be either an ad, fake news or just low effort when it starts with an emoji…

I like the use of emojis when it’s justified as you say, like : saying that’s delicious followed by 😋, sounds friendly, even Ai like Copilot is doing it now

And yes they’re cute that’s why I like them… 🐱

Is that better or worse than BREAKING: on every post?