Is gender merely a social construct or are we born with it?

Gender as sex is what you are born in

Gender as a role/identity is a social construct

Leftists push for the first one, right wingers push for the 2nd

Think you mixed those up, conservatives believe sex and gender are identical and don’t differentiate. Progressives believe gender is a social construct, but depending on who you talk to that means the path forward is twofold and not everyone really agrees on what form gender should take in the future.

if you have a penis i won’t consider you a girl, that’s how it really works. you on the other hand can consider yourself whatever and whoever you want.