It is mind boggling to me how many websites make it difficult or impossible to express the idea you no longer wish to use an old credit card
So I've got two credit cards on the account, and one expired in 2019, and that's the one you're defaulting to. Do you think you're making a good decision here
Bad assumptions programmers make about time: It does not exist, and no piece of information related to a person will ever need to change
"At first we believed that programmers were latently sexist/transphobic, and due to their demographics had never thought about the fact that minoritized communities might need to change their name or gender marker. However with further research, we discovered the problem was larger: Programmers have never thought about anything, at all"

@mcc Yeah, what bugs me are gender/sex markers.

It asks for gender, but shows sexes, or has a category error like, {male, female, non-binary}. Intersex is never listed.

As a transgender programmer, I have sought not to be that way, though I usually do B2N/interfaces, so I rarely end up doing anything with this.

@antiproton @mcc Of course the real question is - WHY DOES THE WEBSITE CARE?
@TomF @mcc there can be a lot of reasons why a website cares. A lot of it comes from things like demographics for analysis. I'm not saying I agree with this, but if you ask the website people that's what you're going to get. Huge amounts of demographics are used for marketing purposes. I mean I'm not a fan of it, but that would be the answer

@antiproton @mcc No no - it answers the question perfectly well :-)

Q: Why does the website care.
A: Marketing.
Q: So what should I put there?
A: Anything you like.

That's what me and all the other people born on 1st Jan 1970 think, anyway...

@TomF @mcc UNIX epoch?

Meow?
I'm a bit confused.

@antiproton @mcc If a website asks my birthdate, I am exactly as old as every computer whose RTC battery has died.

@TomF @antiproton @mcc I used to always use January 1, 1900 -- so that it was very clearly a non-real birthday and that I was withholding information rather than attempting something fraudulent

Though recently some sites were no longer accepting that: I guess they have a maximum age check now (the current oldest known person was born in 1907)

So, I've started using January 1, 1920.