gf wants total silence
It’s a sunny day, we’re outside, good mood, drinking a coffee. I try to strike a conversation, my gf says its too early for philosophical discussions. I tell her we can instead talk about whatever she feels like. She says she doesn’t want to talk about anything. We weirdly sit in silence for a while. I tell her it’s weird to me, we argue. Is this normal?
I try to strike a conversation, my gf says its too early for philosophical discussions
You think philosophical discussions are normal conversations. God, that sound exhausting.
I tell her it’s weird to me, we argue.
Great, so with you it’s either philosophical discussions, or arguing. I wonder how long she will put up with this.
How about asking her: “It it weird that I always start philosophical discussions?”
Tbh your comments sound pretty pushy. Have you noticed you start your statements with a generalization and an attack? “You’re somebody who thinks…”
Also, I didn’t get the classification bit. What do you mean?
I’m sorry, I thought you came here for advice.
Also, I didn’t get the classification bit. What do you mean?
Your GF tells you it’s philosophical. People here tell you it’s philosophical. You think we’re all wrong.
It wasn’t actual philosophical talk, she just called it that.
So you only thought your GF was wrong? I guess that’s better, but it would be much better if you could be more open minded in your relationship too.
Tenshi
SwingingKoala