Short story: I have curly hair. But I straighten it for work to appear “professional.” Or I wear a bun to look “serious.”

These ideas were shaped by social norms + experiences where I’ve been the only woman in the room or dealt w sexual harassment/bias.

But when my 15yo niece visited last week, I marveled at her stunning curls. “It just dries this way,” she said.

And it dawned on me - Wait, mine does too! Or would if I paid less attention to cultural expectations. So I think I’ll do that now.

@Sheril
And it's even worse for black women!
@echanda @Sheril thank you! I was wondering if anyone on here had any idea what is going on in our community! Luckily, our kids don't want any part of it. The future may be brighter🤞
@Agora @Sheril
I hope so! There's nothing inherently "unprofessional" about naturally textured hair, it's part of a person, like skin color. It's not like dyeing your hair purple or having poor hygiene, which are personal choices whose impact on work can be debated (I don't think purple hair is automatically unprofessional). This #HarvardBusinessReview article on how #HairDiscrimination or #texturism affects back women is a good overview of the issue. https://hbr.org/2023/05/how-hair-discrimination-affects-black-women-at-work
How Hair Discrimination Affects Black Women at Work

Despite some progress over the past few years, race-based hair discrimination still remains a widespread issue for Black women in the workplace. A recent study showed that Black women’s hair was two-and-a-half times more likely to be perceived as unprofessional, and one-fifth of the Black women surveyed between the ages of 25 and 34 had been sent home from work because of their hair. Although 20 states have adopted the CROWN Act, which prohibits discrimination based on hair texture and protective styles including braids, twists, and locs, hair discrimination is not prohibited at a federal level in the U.S. To address and mitigate hair bias and discrimination, company leaders should focus on the following three areas: awareness, employee feedback, and objectivity.

Harvard Business Review
@echanda @Sheril Thank you for the great article 🙏🏾