I am a bit confused - sh.itjust.works

We decided to be friends with my 1 week fling (M32). We holded hands then I(F29) developed feeling for him too soon. I thought he was reciprocating to my feelings when he kissed me and hold me and fondled my breasts. We didn’t have sex yet and i wanted it and said so. Two days after those moments he said that he wasn’t feeling the same way as me. He didn’t say that to me at first moments to not make me sad. He wants to be friends in some sort of first stage or for a indefinent time, he hadn’t decided yet. I give it to him. I was way too direct in my approach yet i feel some sort of heart broken as being as hopeless romantic as me. I honestly don’t know to approach to sitation and appreciate input.

Sorry - hes not into you and wanted to let you know before it went too far and you got hurt worse.
I guess. But he should’ve NOT act like he liked me. I wouldn’t go on if he said he wasn’t ready yet. Maybe he was confused at that times too. I will look for other options but won’t give up on him yet. I am already hurt so it can’t get worse.

I guess. But he should’ve NOT act like he liked me.

You’re right, he shouldn’t have. This was likely exactly what went through his head just afterwards and when he decided he had to stop as it wasn’t fair.

Fair point. He doesn’t want to be committed and I don’t want to commited to HIM. I will talk as everything is normal to him and look for other people capable of honesty and love.