My longtime gf (we live together) has been petsitting for these wealthy clients (old friends) for 4 years.

Same dog, whole life of dog.

Gf tells me that clients are getting rid of dog. That either we adopt the dog or clients will have it killed.

They have several conversations about this.

I ask to join the conversation, seeing as how it’s my house and life that will be greatly affected here.

Gf refuses.

Bring it up with clients. Clients blow me off.

3 weeks later we have a new dog.

I feel like a doormat. And the clients totally bullied my gf into this. But I’m the bad guy if I bring it up in conversation to gf or clients.

It’s like some kind of abused housewife situation.

So you saw someone ask “Does the sadness of rehoming a cat ever go away?” and then proceeded to not only ignore the question, but hijack the thread to complain about being a servant to a rich couple and how you don’t like that you don’t have any sway over their property or decisions. You probably get “blown off” by real people all the time. You are not a doormat: you are a doormat with the word “entitled” written across.

Well that was some clumsily strung-together invective. Maybe switch to decaf. It would improve your mood and your writing.