tricia, queen of house cyberly 
after a successful summer camp, i splurged on myself a little bit with a sparkly ass headband and probably the most beautiful statement necklace/wreath i’ve seen. ✨😭
yes i’ll be wearing it on the flight home and likely all of next week lol
after losing all the weight i have, my collarbone definition has returned. i’ve always enjoyed the aesthetic of these huge gaudy neck wreaths (my entire personality is just varying shades of loud) but for so many years they just didn’t lay right or feel right, so i didn’t get them.
this piece stopped me from across the room. stared at it. walked around the room. couldn’t rationalise it. but i really really really wanted it.
the salesperson put it on me, and i started crying. 1. it’s me as fuck. 2. it laid exactly how i wanted it to. even with a t-shirt it looked like it belonged.
i was pretty before the weight loss, no one can take that from me. it has taken me years to believe that. however: seeing your efforts pay off in ways you didn’t expect is really a beautiful thing.
if you are able, do something “frivolous” or something just for you today. you deserve it. you have deserved it this whole time.