What are some good European Lemmy instances? - Lemmy.world

I was looking for a solid instance to move to, but I’m getting burned out from trying to find the perfect instance that: - is based in a country with reasonable privacy reputation (if it still fits the bill, outside Europe too is fine) - allows creating communities without admin approval (though I’m willing to accept getting into one of those too if needed, hopefully it would be accepting of creating niche communities though) - doesn’t defederate indiscriminately The tool I used is lemmyverse.net [http://lemmyverse.net] but it seems the filtering isn’t working great, or I just don’t understand it, e.g. I filter by Italian language and the only Italian instance I know (feddit.it [http://feddit.it]) doesn’t show up, while a slew of irrelevant ones is listed (Lemmy Português is there??) Sorry if I sound so needy, maybe I’m just overthinking it, since posts are public and indexable by anyone. Do say so, if I should chill out and just pick one of the usual ones like lemm.ee [http://lemm.ee] etc. P.S. I would love to self-host, but I’m currently not able to either, I don’t have enough technical expertise.