“...We have a bad habit, encouraged by pedants and sophisticates, of considering happiness as something rather stupid. Only pain is intellectual, only evil interesting. This is the treason of the artist: a refusal to admit the banality of evil and the terrible boredom of pain.

“But to praise despair is to condemn delight, to embrace violence is to lose hold of everything else. We have almost lost hold; we can no longer describe a happy man, nor make any celebration of joy.”

— Ursula K. Le Guin

@FujikakeRin the thing about pain too is that it is boring--in the worst possible way, kind of like the more intense way British people use the term--partly in the sense that it enforces inertia. It drains energy, or it actually physically stops you from thinking or doing as you want to.
You want to get past it. At least IMO. No need to embrace it, it will grab you
@FujikakeRin This is from the opening of "The Ones Who Walk Away From Omelas", and sets out the point of the story: how difficult we find it to imagine a better world.
@FujikakeRin I needed to read this to motivate myself back into writing. Thanks for sharing the quote!