By the way, I'm still pondering changing instances. It's just not easy to find one... partly because I often get kind of scared off by tales of instances suddenly shutting down, or people being kicked off instances... As an NSFW fetish artist I'm a little paranoid about these things.
So much of social media treats you like you have the plague or something if you happen to do erotic stuff... and if you do erotic stuff that's not 100% vanilla? Cue the accustaions.