If any #trans or #enby folxs out there had stories to share about your egg cracking ,(figuring out your gender) especially if it was a long or drawn out process id love to hear them.

(Had a day if going back and forth about whether or not im deluding myself in even trying. The versions of yall in my head were very good at dissuading me of that notion with kindness)

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@EverBeyondReach
I liked roleplaying male characters and writing "autobiographical" stories where the main character was male since I was in early elementary school. I also consistently had dreams in which I was male and I knew those made me happy. I also was fine being female it just didn't feel like enough.

Keep in mind that I also lived in a Very Sheltered Christian Area and this was in the 90's and 00's so I had no concept of "transgender", and if I did I would have thought it was a sin.

@EverBeyondReach
When I got to college and started to learn more about the outside world, I coined the term "bigender" for myself from "bisexual" because it felt right, but I still didn't know anything about trans stuff. 4 years ago I finally found out that bigender is a form of transgender and it came as a huge shock to me and a forced shift in identity. I'm doing fine now and I'm out to the extent that it's safe.