Somewhere along the way, I lost the thread.

I let the other side frame the debate, making my identity all about sex.

I forgot that my identity as a gay man didn’t rest on sex, or sexuality, and it took a beautiful song to remind me.

I was scanning through my Mastodon feed and ran across a video from 2021, made during the heart of the pandemic – a song called Boys Who Like Boys by an openly gay singer named Eli Lieb. Intrigued, I clicked on the link...

https://www.jscottcoatsworth.com/point-of-view-boys-who-like-boys/