"Voting with your feet" is a backstop not a first resort. The first resort should be democratic decision making. We should not accept instances where the users don't collectively have ultimate authority over policy and defederation decisions.
@misc do you know of any descriptions or guides or recommendations for community run instances?
(Also, I think individually run personal instances should be exempt)
@misc also I'd like to see Fediverse projects be community-run instead of run by benevolent dictators
(and make sure it is a diverse group in charge since Mastodon leans so white)