JunoOne thing I will never do and never understand is faking an orgasm.
Especially I find it problematic If a person does it all the time. Just be honest! There‘s no need to feel shame if you can‘t orgasm.
Especially it will be more "embarrassing" for your partner if they will find out that you were faking all the time.
Medium-Sized Death@Junowo I think I've faked two orgasms, back when I was on a lot of SSRI's and just couldn't finish. It's pretty messed up to do it with any regularity, though, you're just making your partner worse at making you cum by not telling them that what they're doing isn't working.
@msd yeah it‘s very important to communicate with your partner to be able to improve the sex!
I mean.. Open communication in bed is crucial for a satisfying and intimate relationship. Faking an orgasm might seem like an easy way to avoid discomfort, but it hinders true connection and prevents addressing important issues.
For example I once had someone who took ADHD medications .. was really hard to make him cum. But with good communication we still had great sex
I mean.. Open communication in bed is crucial for a satisfying and intimate relationship. Faking an orgasm might seem like an easy way to avoid discomfort, but it hinders true connection and prevents addressing important issues.
For example I once had someone who took ADHD medications .. was really hard to make him cum. But with good communication we still had great sex
Olive🫒 [NSFW]@Junowo it’s just not good for the dynamic. People have to figure out what *actually* gives them pleasure, and not confuse the other partner by faking it
@olivelewds THIS^^^^! I feel like people don‘t realize how harmful this actually is! Communication is Key!!