@silvereagle also, there is a RIDICULOUS amount of baggage around fediverse programs as the place where a bunch of The Worst People (who couldn't stay on corporate social media because they were so atrocious) had to go... And also the place where Old School Forum Drama causes all sorts of "Wait, I can't see my friends' toots anymore because these two admins are having a pissing contest!?"
Mastodon literally is the jewel of a crucible heated by extremists too spicy for Twitter and shitty admins who had the same "I can run this and become popular like I wasn't in high school" attitude that wrecked a LOT of forums and made big corporate "No, the people moderating this know that it's a job" social media seem appealing back in the aughts.
I am having a net good experience here but I'm not gonna pretend that there wasn't some fuckshit that happened right out in public for everyone to see that scared a bunch of folks away...