What sex act/kink do you just not get at all?

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What sex act/kink do you just not get at all? - Lemmy.world

For me, it’s anal sex with a woman. There’s a hole right next to it that evolution has literally designed for your penis that doesn’t require extra prep and comes pre-lubed. Why choose the one where the poo comes out?

Why choose the one where the poo comes out?

It’s different. I’m not crazy about it myself but I have done it and can appreciate it. It’s certainly tighter for the guy, and some girls enjoy receiving it. I (a guy) enjoy receiving anal also - it’s where your prostate is and it’s a sensitive area which is enjoyable to stimulate. If you haven’t tried it I strongly recommend exploring, as otherwise you’re leaving a lot of potential enjoyment on the table - it’s like a girl never trying playing with her clit. Girls don’t have the prostate but the anus is still sensitive, and sexual enjoyment can be just as much about the idea of doing something fun than the direct stimulation - see all fetishes.

You don’t usually involve the poo, unless you’re into that. You clean first, inside and out. It’s an extra step of prep which means it can’t be as spontaneous. If you’re put off by bodily fluids, or stink/bacteria, then I have bad news for you about vaginas. Mouths are also not “designed” for sex and yet you probably still enjoy blowjobs.

I tried it once out of curiosity and probably since it’s really common in porn. It wasn’t terrible, but I just don’t have desire to do it again. I’m not saying butt stuff shouldn’t be enjoyed, more that I recognise that anal is actually very normal but it’s strange I’m just not into it.

Hey, if you’re not into it then you do you. Everyone has their own interests. It’s not strange to not be into something that other people are.

I don’t know why it’s so common in porn really.

I would guess it’s because there is a large market for it and because the actors don’t have to worry about getting pregnant so they can go raw and make it “sexier.”

Anything that involves pain.

How is that sexual?! Sex is supposed to feel good! Pain is the opposite of that! 😩

Some people have wires crossed and experience pleasure with pain. I swear they did a study on it, but google is not being helpful.
I can believe that. Brains are fuckin’ weird, man.

Any sort of age play. Obviously adults can do what they want, but it just weirds me out, same thing with jailbait/obsession with people looking 18 when you’re not 18-21 years old.

This wouldn’t be necessarily a kink but just pics of people sticking out their tongue cross eyed. I just can’t fucking stand it I have no idea why lol. I think it also adds into them looking younger and it bugs me.

Obviously disclaimer adults can do what they want to do, but if this is an open discussion about what we don’t get…here we go.

What do you mean by people looking 18 when they’re not 18? Do you mean what they wear and stuff, or just how they naturally look?

I understand that people can’t control how they look, but like the schoolgirl fetish bothers me personally. Not necessarily their face but how they present themselves with outfits/makeup/hair.

It doesn’t help that personally I adopted my daughter when she was 16 and I was 28 years old. But with only a 12 year age gap I am especially sensitive to this subject because it just creeps me out because there is absolutely nothing I have in common with people in her age demographic as far as romantic/sexual interest goes.

The cross eyed tongue out thing is called ahegao and I believe it started in hentai as a way to show the woman is so so into it, like she’s being fucked silly.

It apparently caught on in western audiences with IRL women and while I can appreciate it when it’s drawn I can’t stand it when women actually do it. It looks so dumb IRL!

Yeah i just can’t stand it! I’m game for anything but if I get asked to do that…I’m leaving lol