pineapplefriedricePeople of Lemmy who have either "reinvented themselves" or gone through a mid/quarter-life crisis, where did you start off and where did you end up?
Borgzilla34 years old with two kids. My soon-to-be-ex-wife left me last year and she wants a divorce. I’ve recently found out that she is dating the guy she told me not to worry about. Getting divorced means that 50% of my assets will go to her, and I will need to sell my house. Child support is leaving me with little money left at the the of the month.
So, how do I feel? Not bad at all, actually. My children are healthy, they have a good relationship with me and their mother, and they have everything that they need. Have I lost a wife? No, it was returned. Have I lost my possessions? No, they were returned. Living according to Nature is what I strive for. Everything else is irrelevant.
I’m your age. Basically the same story minus the family. I sometimes regret being alone. It sucks. But I don’t think I could handle a women shacking up with someone else and expecting me to pay her. Guess the grass is always greener.