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KantiberlI think, you’re more gross than anything that is in this post.
Father didn’t lose a son, he rejected a daughter. If he cannot accept his own daughter because of being transphobic shithead, he deserves to suffer
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rubythulhuThe father didn’t “lose” anyone. His daughter is still right there, he could have a loving and close relationship with her if he chose to accept her for who she is. He didn’t lose his son, he chose to reject his daughter.
Choosing to not support your children is how you become estranged from your children, not something to feel sorry for the parent for. It just makes the father a piece of shit. This statement is true of all shitty parents, not just transphobic shitbags.
Good Girl [she/they]Poor father had to see his daughters pussy because he refused to respect her 🥺
Will nobody think of the bigots?!
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AngrilyEatingMuffinsFuck off forever transphobe
Consider the cleansing nature of fire.
Swedneck
ChrisLichtThe dad still said happy birthday and I love you only to get that text back. Older folks are exposed to a lot of propaganda and many are brainwashed. Without more context I’m hesitant to call him an asshole.
It’s just sad that they can’t look past this and love each other regardless.
Sad that dad can’t toss away his transphobia and accept his daughter.
Daughter’s behavior is completely justifiable tho. If I was in her place, I would not look past bigotry and basic lack of respect to me
How much exposure do you have to these bible people though? I mean the dad was taught that even being gay sends you to hell.
I’m from a small conservative town and it’s hard to fault the brainwashed people either IMO. A lot of them are good people who have been severely manipulated.
How much exposure do you have to these bible people though?
I’m from Russia. I’ve seen more than enough conservatives. And more than enough brainwashing (though more in a context of a war)
In the end, I think, this is not really relevant. Transphobic parent, ultimately, hurts more than helps (even if they do it out of love for you), and people who do you more damage than help should be cut off
Oh, well I guess they win then. Deep down they’re probably good people, so we just ignore their bigotry and allow it to proliferate further and continue to make the rest of the world a worse place for people I care about.
Fuck that. I cut out my family for being bigots. I told them specifically why and I refuse to take their phone calls. You have to let people know that those beliefs are wrong and let them know that there are social consequences for continuing to believe them. America didn’t pass the Civil Rights Act by waiting until people just came around and agreed with them. They said “This is wrong, and now illegal.” and made them deal with the consequences (Kinda. It’s still America and still pretty racist so…)
Point is, change doesn’t happen by ignoring shitty behavior. This kind of behavior needs to be confronted and shut down every time. EVERY TIME.
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lapisThe hint in this case is “God bless you”
That’s actually the abuse showing through. It’s intentional passive aggression and a manipulative speech pattern. It’s meant to imply, “God bless you, even though you’re breaking his rules and making him sad and probably going to hell”.
And before you ask, I was raised evangelical, was deeply involved in ministry, went to bible school, and even worked at a church for a few years; I know how these people think because I was one until I saw the light and ditched their religion. The number of times I’ve seen “I’ll pray for you/them”, “God bless you/them”, and such used as insults is too damn high.
Bloved MadmanSo you think its OK to send a unsolicited pic of what is, genitaila, to your dad, given that its because he misgendered you?
Sending unsolicited pics of your balooga, is never OK… In fact. It could actually be a crime.