When I was in the military, the shooting instructors said they preferred training females because they haven’t been trained poorly by somebody else.

they preferred training females

It’s “women”.

“They said”

“They said”

If only there was some generally agreed upon symbol to denote direct quotes as opposed to paraphrasing and idea in your own words. If only…

You sound like a miserable person

I’d rather sound miserable than incel.