Everyone I've talked to about joining Mastodon/Lemmy/The Fediverse

https://poptalk.scrubbles.tech/post/71612

Everyone I've talked to about joining Mastodon/Lemmy/The Fediverse - PopTalk

yeah but if you join, and your friends join, and they’re friends, you know what nevermind

While I definitely felt that way with Mastodon and Pixelfed, Lemmy has been an amazing replacement for Reddit so far and I like PeerTube as well, just need a solid mobile client so I can stop relying on NewPipe which does not let me sign in.
You can use peertube in fedilab
That’s my thing, newpipe has a really clean interface but I’d love to interact more. Might have to check out this fedilabs thing I keep seeing mentioned
The same problem is in politics in Germany. They vote only for the big politicians who have already a big group of supporters and so a high chance to win. Like „ I don’t vote for xyz because they have only 0.5% of voters in Germany and can’t change anything by that“ . With this attitude they also grow very slowly.
It’s not only in Germany, tho
And it’s by design

Yeah but in that case they are right. Not voting for the bigger party that you don’t like that much could mean that another big party that you really dislike will win.

The people are not the problem, the system that doesn’t allow them to voice their opinions through a fully democratic vote is.

We usually talk about “democracies” as an umbrella term without regards to how they’re electoral and government systems actually work.

Bc changing the system is a challenge to the people who get power from that system.

This problem is a property of the way elections are done. Take a look: ()[youtu.be/s7tWHJfhiyo]

There are alternative voting methods that can solve this. (Ranked Pairs)[en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ranked_pairs] and (Schulze)[en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schulze_method] are my favorites, but (Instant Runoff)[en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Instant-runoff_voting] would solve this problem as well.

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Same guy goes and signs up for lizardman's Threads
Most people just wanna doom-scroll, they have no interest in having conversations.
man if I start my day without a healthy level of existential dread and depression what’s even the point?
Hahah. Your post hits home.
You know what? I think I’m okay with the fediverse simply never getting as big and popular as Reddit is/was. Over the years, as it got more popular, I definitely noticed that the average quality of interactions I had on Reddit slowly but steadily declined. Lemmy feels like old-school Reddit, which I am honestly pretty happy about.

That’s what I keep saying. I keep getting told I’m wrong though, that Lemmy needs to be easier to join, and hit critical mass and become the reddit killer because that’s the only way we can exist.

Like, no thank you. I’m happy with Lemmy NOW, I don’t need it to keep growing!

In all fairness, most people who want to see reddit killed off because they’re still mourning how shitty it became, along with the virtual backstabbing by the admins through May/June. In reality, Reddit has a decent enough mainstream foothold that it’ll likely linger on for a while, maybe even years. But the reddit we all once knew has been pretty dead for a while now.
I think some more growth would definitely be good for the community. There’s still a lot of room for growth before we even come close to being as big as early 10’s reddit.
the only thing I miss from reddit are the niche communities
but that will come with time
Depends. If instances keep going into defederarion wars over philosophical beliefs it will become really tricky to have small communities. If I like some kind of bizarre miniatures, turtle crocheting, collectible wooden marbles, etc. I shouldn’t have to worry about whether the other person I want to talk to who collects toy unicorns is a “tankie” or not. As long as the communities are moderated enough, political philosophies shouldn’t be an issue.
That’s kinda the point though. With Reddit you were just stuck with them. Now we can move. People make the communities, not the platforms.

There is a pretty wide sweet spot between 100k users and 100 million. I think most of us agree that Lemmy shouldn’t be trying to be a reddit killer, but that doesn’t contradict the fact that we still need to grow the userbase by orders of magnitude.

I’m loving this phase, don’t get me wrong, but I have a feeling that by the time we hit 1 million or 5 million it’ll be even more enoyable here. We have a longggg way to go before we have to worry about becoming too big.

I went to Reddit for the first time this month to speak up in a relevant thread about it and got a bunch of tone deaf replies about they‘d rather join Threads cause "its popular and you sound like crypto bros with the decentralised stuff" and also some "Lemmy was made by tankies" and so on.

You know what, I don‘t care, don‘t want these short sighted people here, let them get screwed a few more time by the corpos.

Yeah, I read stuff like that a while back before threads, but there was a turning point. Used to be Reddit was the place you’d downvote any post about meta, insta, or any other huge social media to hell. Now tiktok videos are upvoted to the frontpage.

And Lemmy’s founders may not have views I like, but then again neither does Meta’s founders. At least with Lemmy if their views ever make it into code we can fork off of it

Funny thing is my comment was about kbin, I just mentioned Lemmy and Mastodon as an interaction, but that is their main talking point, the other one was "too complicated" and "looks shit" and some more. They clearly don‘t have any understanding of open source or forking, so I didn‘t even bother to explain. Also I don‘t even wanna know what spez or Zuckerberg think, probably something fascist too and TikTok is also owned by tankies basically, anyway no sense in fighting that, just glad I got this space with all of you to enjoy.

Steve Huffman (spez) is a well-known, big time doomsday pepper.

newyorker.com/…/doomsday-prep-for-the-super-rich

Some of his quotes in this article are incredibly cringe. For example:

Huffman has calculated that, in the event of a disaster, he would seek out some form of community: “Being around other people is a good thing. I also have this somewhat egotistical view that I’m a pretty good leader. I will probably be in charge, or at least not a slave, when push comes to shove.”

Ew

Makes sense, he does seem like he’d have an inflated sense of self-importance and he can see all the eat the rich type of stuff on Reddit.
The rich are the least useful people in an emergency. Lacking basic skills and not relating to normal people enough to lead a group.
Right? “Bro, you’re not treated like a leader because you have leadership skills. You’re treated like a leader because you have money and power, which would be largely useless if this political/social/economic system collapsed. Plus, you just made clear that you’re looking forward to a future with slaves. Maybe try therapy?”
But we do want people here. We’re extremely social creatures. Its natural we would want to recreate our virtual social spaces in a place that cannot be overrun by monetization. Keep trying! Water cuts through rock not with force but with persistence!
I don‘t feel like it myself, but feel free to try to get through to them of course. I do want more people here, but I‘m also ok with it not being that many and especially not all the thick headed ones who need a billionaire to tell them what to think.
Slow growth is the key, there’s probably some left in Reddit that needs to be fed up, or new Reddit users that join and then end up here.
Eh, I’d rather only have people genuinely interested in exploring and sharing knowledge here. Makes it closer to the purer internet of old before “Web 2.0” came and fucked it up.
Yeah, not sure I really want all of those low-effort shit posters here. Let them pollute another community.

My vernacular is a bit dated, not sure if I’m a tankie, pretty sure I’m not a corpo.

Either way, I’m perfectly happy with the community here as it exists, and if it leans toward the geek crowd I’m all for it.

For sure, if people are looking for an alternative, and are interested, I’ll recommend it, but I don’t think we need to advocate for Lemmy to drive the masses here.

Tankie is authoritarian communists, so basically China/USSR/dictatorship fan. Corpo is from Cyberpunk to mean like businessmen/executives, but I like to use it for these kinda consumerist people too.

I personally do think there is more to people than their political ideologies usually, even if I get upset with some of them a bit.

I agree and I do have a feeling like it‘s a geekier crowd, similar to Reddit 10 years ago when I first went there.

not sure if I’m a tankie

What are your thoughts on the mass internment of Uyghurs? Complete denial? You may be a tankie.

Reddit’s life blood is arguments for the argument’s sake, even when you don’t have a flu what you are arguing against or for. So it doesn’t really surprise. Besides, Reddit’s been heavily moderating positive comments about Lemmy so it may be that bias showing

Dude, if some country did some crazy shit in the past, that doesn’t mean that entire nation is shit. You can’t apprentice people like that.

If people will, they will talk about wars in America, Russia, Iran, Europe etc…

STOP DISRESPECTING PEOPLE FOR THEIR BELIEFS, IDEOLOGIES, LOCATION!

  • I was quoting someone else 2) You getting so triggered over me merely using the word tankie shows you‘re not just about "talking about wars", but something more nefarious, which I don‘t really care for or about.
  • I also don‘t think the entire nation is shit about China by the way, mainly the way they repress wrongthink and block half the internet and kill people for protests is from my perspective SHIT. Now, judging by your style of "discussion" this will upset you even more, so I prefer to block in advance. Have a good one.

    Honestly, I'm fine with the normies staying on Reddit and Twitter, while all of us 'new cool' folks explore our rebel alliance.
    Threads starting up just proved to me that everyone would willingly join the empire if it gave them the smallest amount of convenience. Hell they’ll pay for the empire to have less privacy and freedom if they can.
    Exactly. And the same applies to Linux, if it becomes majority then hackers and scammers would start targeting it. This things are better off thriving in their niche than dominating the environment
    Tell them it's a secret club that you've formed with friends. Set it up for them on their computer or phone. It might make it seem fun.
    My feeling is that most of the social media platforms are just turning into cess pools of right wing hatred and evil. Reddit was left leaning, but their recent move just seemed obvious they want to go the way of twitter and be a shithole of a website as well. Just another money maker by exploiting the dumber people.

    Reddit was left leaning

    No, it really wasn't.

    Reddit was self-siloing and community moderated, so it was easier to avoid the worst of right-wing social media bullshit, but the place was (and is) crawling with anarcho-capitalists, techbro libertarians, and socons, and fascists with just enough brain cells to rub together to not get banned from the site.

    Moderated spaces tend to filter out the biggest assholes who can't help themselves when it comes to blatantly and openly attacking people, but Reddit is not a moderated space. It's just that it contains moderated spaces that became large -- the unmoderated ones don't grow at the same rate. But there have been fairly long standing, ongoing, and successful efforts to fash up mid-sized subreddits and turn them into cesspits.

    “nobody drives in New York, there’s too much traffic”.
    Funny, but totally irrelevant here.
    Yeah there’s no way in Hell I’m telling average people to jump on the fediverse train. This place is niche af - just like Reddit was in the early days.
    I'm here cause I'm tired of mainstream Social media. Why the hell would I want to bring them here?
    Because what defines mainstream social media is more the algorithms and ads than the participants?

    I'd argue it's a combination of both. Facebook is a good example of this. I still remember when Facebook was still considered a cool place to be, and it was more of where highschool and colleged age people gathered. Once everyone and their grandma got onboard, that's around the time it started becoming insufferable.

    A lot of people who were here before the reddit migration definitely noticed a change in the culture here (and complained about it in "unpopular" opinions) Having a large influx of users is absolutely going to change the culture of this place, even if the advertisers and celebs never come.

    I just want my favorite video game to have a sublemmy :( why is it impossible to get anyone to talk about even the most popular video games here?
    Which game?
    League of Legends
    Not here? [email protected] ?
    League of Legends (Updated July 2023) - Lemmy

    No low-quality meme GIFs/images. No posts complaining about gameplay.

    Seems to be broken. It shows no posts
    I see posts on my end. I’m guessing the server it’s on may have been overloaded when you checked.
    IMO, the fact that those people aren't here is the best part of the fediverse.

    This is the ”insurmountable” challenge of almost every tech platform from Google to Reddit to Twitter and so on, the competitive advantage is the user base. So without a notable performance advantage (like Google usurping Yahoo) or tangible user experience benefit (Facebook replacing MySpace), these platforms will remain the dominant player in their niche.

    Good news is the shitification of tech has really presented some opportunities in some of the niches. Obviously we’re all aware of reddit’s recent actions, Twitter is trying its best to fail, Facebook went the cable TV route and made itself uncool, and Insta keeps flirting with real bad ideas.

    Fediverse might not be the answer, but there hasnt been a better time for viable alternatives in a very long while.