does anyone know a technological solution to "hands are too shakey for SMD soldering"? I am thinking of some sort of device you can place your hand on that dampens the tremors
(please RT, would really love for my gf to be able to solder fine pitch SMD stuff)

@whitequark A good magnifying lamp setup helped me with my shaky hands more than I thought it would.

I think I'd like to get a good pick and place tool, as well, but can't speak from experience on that yet.