I'm tired of religon - Beehaw

A few days ago I was one step closer to coming out but now I doubt its safe to come out. My parents just proved that they are extremely religious and would get pissy about how im bi ( actually omni but I use bi ) and how i despise the Catholic church. The only thing stopping me from coming out is religion. Anyone in the same boat? What do i do?

I’m not in the position to give you advice.

My first step was leaving the church and stopp paying them money to be against me. Coming out was the next step in my case…

I wish you good luck for when time has come…

I’m 14 and leaving the church would turn my whole family against me sadly. I don’t pay them money tho.

Maybe a litte bit of advice…

I read that you are 14 and that you think, that your parents won’t be able to handle it well.

It’s usually useful to know the best case and the worst case. And then you hope for the best case and prepare for the worst case.

What is the worst case in your case?

Would your parents kick you out? If yes, you should somehow try to prepare. Do you have enough money to survive without them? At least a few months? If not, can you save money? Do you have a job or will you get one soon? That makes you more independant from them.

Would your parents hurt you? If yes, don’t tell them in person.

I have some preparation but I don’t want to come out yet. I’m teaching my siblings so when the time comes i have some leverage