The U.S. Surgeon General declared loneliness a public health crisis, but what does loneliness actually look like for Americans?

As I continue to report on loneliness, I'm looking for people to share their experience. This topic can be super tough to talk about, so appreciate anyone willing to take the plunge and help demystify. Also appreciate any help connecting with sources.

If this sounds like you or someone you know, please reach out. [email protected]

@tatumhunter I wonder if it would be interesting to reach out to the authors of this paper I recently was reading for work:
https://www.apa.org/pubs/journals/releases/apl-apl0001103.pdf

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I see loneliness through my own eyes, but also through that of my clients, who are seeking connections with others, and want “to be part of something,”

While I have not yet had one explicitly state that they are seeking to solve loneliness, most of my clients are looking for community & human connectivity

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To me, loneliness is being stuck in between homes due to there being one house on the market with 8-10 families all wanting it. Being homeless and able to afford a home, but not being able to buy anything because people are swooping in paying cash. And then the problems that develope from this, impacting your family…

Seems easy to ask a simple question when the answer is so complicated. Sure does make for a great scare tactic headline, though.

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For most of my life, I've met few people whose company I really enjoyed. Usually after socializing with people I breathe a sigh of relief. It's so nice to be alone! Recently, I've managed to make a friend with a nearby neighbor so we can help each other, but I can't say I like her that much.

"Our Epidemic of Loneliness and Isolation" (from the HHS) declares "less than 20% of individuals who often or always feel lonely or isolated recognize it as a major problem". For those who don't recognize it as a problem, maybe it isn't.

@tatumhunter the one ironic joy of being alive now is that we can use the internet and all be lonely together. Hooray!

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kurt vonnegut in palm sunday (1981) wrote:

What should young people do with their lives today? Many things, obviously. But the most daring thing is to create stable communities in which the terrible disease of loneliness can be cured.

Makes you wonder how the world would be if Elon had a true friend in it.

@tatumhunter websites such as OurTime really push their patrons to purchase additional 'boosts'. It's about Marketing & the FOMO. In fact, website IRL.com has shut down as of 06/27/23.