YTA. Don’t lie to your partner, especially not about the important stuff, and abuse is pretty damn important. There are plenty of ethical ways to get them to open up to you more.

YWBTA -- Instead of lying, explore different topics. A lot of quiet people have some interest that they can go on and on about.

YWBTA -- Instead of lying, explore different topics. A lot of quiet people have some interest that they can go on and on about. Find that niche where you and L are active.

🚩🚩🚩 Divorce!